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I pull the hood of my jacket over, half covering my sweaty face; I am exhausted. These are the confessions of a serial dancer.

The Bridge: Life-taker

November 29th 2006 20:39
The Golden Gate Bridge Eric Steel
"The Bridge"
I rarely watch tv these days but found myself with some spare time on the couch, channel surfing two Sunday nights ago. 60 minutes was just starting and the first segment on Eric Steel's controversial documentary The Bridge that reports on the suicides from the Golden Gate Bridge in San Fransisco was quite disturbing. Footage of people jumping to their deaths was shown, reminiscent of the horrifying scenes from 9/11.

To see these people in their last few moments, contemplating whether or not they want to live or die... it seems so far from reality but it happens hundreds of times a year at that very same place. One guy in the film, who survived after jumping off the Bridge, spoke of how he began to realise, shortly after he had jumped, that he didn't want to die yet, and did what he could to try and save himself. He landed in the water in a sitting position, sinking deep into the murky waters. " Which way do I go?" He wondered. Out of nowhere came a little ray of light which he followed, picked up by the Coast Guard not long after.


While watching this, my boyfriend's sister mentioned how just the other week, a guy from her old highschool jumped off The Gap which is notorious for the 20 - 30 suicides a year, mostly by teens and young adults. She spoke so calmly, saying how suicides were quite common from people in her old highschool and surrounding areas.

Sure, everyone goes through some really tough times, life sucks and you hate everyone in it (except for maybe one person), and it's really hard to get through it. Alcohol and other forms of recreational drugs are often used (definitely not by me) as a form of escapism but what else is there? What do you do when everything's gone to shit?

Confront the issues, deal with it. Watch some movies and escape reality temporarily that way. Express your feelings, talk to someone.

What I do sometimes when it gets really bad, is write it all down on paper, or type it up somewhere and once it's all off my chest, I glance through it another time before I delete the whole thing, rip up the paper and throw it away.

It helps to get it off your chest but you also don't want reminders of it so let it out then let go.

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Comment by LaurenD

November 29th 2006 23:00
I'd like to see this documentary, I must admit. Suicide needs to be talked about, not kept as this secret issue that so many like to call something else.

Look for Australian Tilly Brasch's memoir 'No Middle Name' if you want to read up on this issue. A powerful book.

Good post.

LaurenD

Comment by Trina

November 29th 2006 23:09
I agree it's an important issue - I know several years back Australia had the highest rate of teenage suicides and I'm not sure whether these figures are the same.

I might look into that book, thanks for the recommendation!

Comment by LaurenD

November 29th 2006 23:18
Last I heard, suicide is the number one cause of death for Australian youth [under 18 I believe].

I worked with the author on that book and in it, she confronts the Qld Mental Health System. Eventually, the book landed in Parliament and got the bigwigs talking about the issue. One person stirred the pot, it's amazing what one person can do.

Things like this post get people talking. It's good.

LaurenD

Comment by Trina

November 30th 2006 01:55
Wow that's really impressive (about you and the author not the stats...)

People don't realise how significant an impact an individual can have on large bodies and I really admire those who go out and defy everyone and do what they believe in (for the greater good of course).

Thanks for the comments, I think you and I are the only people who have read this post

Comment by Cibbuano

December 6th 2006 03:21
that's real footage from the cameras on the bridge? That's insane...

Comment by Trina

December 6th 2006 03:41
Yeah the cameras were set up around the bridge for a whole year - that footage is just unbelievable, people's last moments alive... *shudder*

Comment by Tammy

December 6th 2006 15:58
i read it!!

so did they show people contemplating death and then walking away??

Comment by Trina

December 6th 2006 16:14
Read what? Huh?

Well they didn't show that footage on 60 minutes so I don't know if that's included but they did save a few lives during the filming...

Ahhh tonight was good random. Didn't involve any food (for us) though so that's crap. NY Pizza next time!

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