The Bridge: Life-taker
November 29th 2006 20:39
I rarely watch tv these days but found myself with some spare time on the couch, channel surfing two Sunday nights ago. 60 minutes was just starting and the first segment on Eric Steel's controversial documentary The Bridge that reports on the suicides from the Golden Gate Bridge in San Fransisco was quite disturbing. Footage of people jumping to their deaths was shown, reminiscent of the horrifying scenes from 9/11.
To see these people in their last few moments, contemplating whether or not they want to live or die... it seems so far from reality but it happens hundreds of times a year at that very same place. One guy in the film, who survived after jumping off the Bridge, spoke of how he began to realise, shortly after he had jumped, that he didn't want to die yet, and did what he could to try and save himself. He landed in the water in a sitting position, sinking deep into the murky waters. " Which way do I go?" He wondered. Out of nowhere came a little ray of light which he followed, picked up by the Coast Guard not long after.
To see these people in their last few moments, contemplating whether or not they want to live or die... it seems so far from reality but it happens hundreds of times a year at that very same place. One guy in the film, who survived after jumping off the Bridge, spoke of how he began to realise, shortly after he had jumped, that he didn't want to die yet, and did what he could to try and save himself. He landed in the water in a sitting position, sinking deep into the murky waters. " Which way do I go?" He wondered. Out of nowhere came a little ray of light which he followed, picked up by the Coast Guard not long after.
While watching this, my boyfriend's sister mentioned how just the other week, a guy from her old highschool jumped off The Gap which is notorious for the 20 - 30 suicides a year, mostly by teens and young adults. She spoke so calmly, saying how suicides were quite common from people in her old highschool and surrounding areas.
Sure, everyone goes through some really tough times, life sucks and you hate everyone in it (except for maybe one person), and it's really hard to get through it. Alcohol and other forms of recreational drugs are often used (definitely not by me) as a form of escapism but what else is there? What do you do when everything's gone to shit?
Confront the issues, deal with it. Watch some movies and escape reality temporarily that way. Express your feelings, talk to someone.
What I do sometimes when it gets really bad, is write it all down on paper, or type it up somewhere and once it's all off my chest, I glance through it another time before I delete the whole thing, rip up the paper and throw it away.
It helps to get it off your chest but you also don't want reminders of it so let it out then let go.
| 119 |
| Vote |
subscribe to this blog

























Comment by LaurenD
Look for Australian Tilly Brasch's memoir 'No Middle Name' if you want to read up on this issue. A powerful book.
Good post.
LaurenD
Comment by Trina
Hiphop
Confessions of a Serial Dancer
Competitions
Clubbing
I might look into that book, thanks for the recommendation!
Comment by LaurenD
I worked with the author on that book and in it, she confronts the Qld Mental Health System. Eventually, the book landed in Parliament and got the bigwigs talking about the issue. One person stirred the pot, it's amazing what one person can do.
Things like this post get people talking. It's good.
LaurenD
Comment by Trina
Hiphop
Confessions of a Serial Dancer
Competitions
Clubbing
People don't realise how significant an impact an individual can have on large bodies and I really admire those who go out and defy everyone and do what they believe in (for the greater good of course).
Thanks for the comments, I think you and I are the only people who have read this post
Comment by Cibbuano
Hunt Famous
Orble Post of the Day
Fat Cult
Techbreak
Comment by Trina
Hiphop
Confessions of a Serial Dancer
Competitions
Clubbing
Comment by Tammy
so did they show people contemplating death and then walking away??
Comment by Trina
Hiphop
Confessions of a Serial Dancer
Competitions
Clubbing
Well they didn't show that footage on 60 minutes so I don't know if that's included but they did save a few lives during the filming...
Ahhh tonight was good random. Didn't involve any food (for us) though so that's crap. NY Pizza next time!